5 Things That Stop You From Living Your Best Life

Ever ready to throw in the towel or call it quits on something that you have been working on?  Or perhaps just walk away from a situation.  Its a development of putting your all in, using much needed energy to hit a wall.  Know the feeling?

Well, I’ve known it all too well. The people pleasing, the self-sabotage, the wondering what would people say if?….. I’m sure you get the picture. See for women, it’s natural for us to nurture, think ahead and forecast what may be possible in hopes for us to be better prepared. But what it does really stop us from is, the great what if’s and possible journeys that await us.

Here is where I had my Whaalah moment!  Thinking of conversations that I’ve had with clients, friends, family there are 5 common threads that exist that blocks us.

Even more prevalent, this can be in any aspect of your life.  Here are the obstacles that I found to stop us from leaving our problems:

1.  Focus On The Obstacle

Many times, the focus is on the obstacle.  See its like a self-inflicted wound where we continue on a cycle of just seeing the obstacle.   Focusing on the obstacle allows creativity but in the wrong direction.  It focuses on just the one thing and all though we are taking action (you know finding a more creative way to solve this), you end up in the same lesson just in a different scenario.

2. Create Limitations

Self-limiting belief is a big killer of dreams. It creates a mental space of focusing in a very limited way and not seeing other options.  As a result, we operate from a place of self-sabotage.  Fear of moving in a direction due to worry from moving there in the past.    Seeing the limit we find more reasons, why now is not the right time, how going here may create problems and more worrying than believing.

3.  Being Married To The Problem

Ever have that friend, that no matter the solution you give, they go back to the issue?  Or perhaps you have been there?  Have you noticed the focus goes back to points 1 and 2?  This happens because the pain has become more comfortable to deal with than a new possible outcome.  As a result, we become invested in all parts.  This investment is marriage. When we are married to the problem, we are connected emotionally, physically (stress) and mentally. These attachments is just like a marriage.  And if you ever been through a divorce where you were connected in all these aspects, I’m sure you thought that death may have been easier.  The thing is, every time you decide to leave in one aspect the other ones pulls you in.  It’s like breaking up with social media.  It’s no longer just one time.

4.  Find Someone To Blame

This can be a person or just the situation.  Most often times there needs to be a blame.  In our minds, the reason replay and analyze is so we can not have this challenge again.  In theory, this makes sense if the stop was really hard to go through.  But in reality, what it does is create analysis paralysis.    So rewinding, playing back moments turns to overthinking and another way of stopping your success.  It can also create unforgiveness, which in itself creates a whole other set of issues.

5. Losing Value In What You Do

This can be a big one.  But if you have had a hobby that you enjoy doing and no longer, then you are in this boat as well.  When we lose this, more doubt is present and keeps us from believing in what is outside of our vision.  The value we bring is lost to those that are in a space to receives and resignation to other fun aspects of our life diminishes.

These things are all life suckers and really keep you paralyzed from achieving the love, success, career or family that you want.  But what if there was a way to break past this?

More importantly, what is the ROI on not having these things stop you? Hmmm…let’s think

  • Going out feeling like you look good
  • Real conversations, that are actually fun
  • Better quality time with Kids
  • The Job you want
  • better relations
  • Actual time out for you

Yes! these are all things that happen when your mind is freed up.  You get to embrace the real you that most likely you have forgotten or can’t believe its possible again.

But I got you.  Just know there is a way. Embrace by divorcing the problem to free your mind and change your life.  Once I did this, overthinking went away and staying present became easier.  The clarity received from pulling those weeds out, gave me real room for growth.

And I know its possible for you!  until next time……


PS.  I have ways to help you get out of your own way.

1.  Join My Universal Love Group – It’s a group where others that are dealing with similar issues get to connect too.

2.  Grab the Solution on Getting Rid of these Blocks.   I’ll go right for the middle and teach you how to      DIVORCE What’s Stopping you…we’ll even get you down to do it in 15 Min.  Click here for details.

3. Do you feel you are sacrificing yourself more than you need to and feel there is a deeper issue?  That no matter what, you feel not good enough?  I know how I can help you. Book a free call.

To Be Nothing

This statement above came to me and I began to meditate on just this.  Being in the now.  Not allowing things to be of compare or contrast to allow the ego and the mind to assess and take hold of it.  To just be.  This is what I received.

To ask what is unknown, cannot be.  But to just be is what is.  In such a world that we live in today where everything is by a standard dictated by the government, religion and in some forms culture, we are lost souls in belief of the system or in search of the “I”.  Forever moving back and forth and missing what is here now.

To just be, allows not a form of waiting but a stillness a form of nothing.  No definitions, no labels but as the animals and creatures move in synchronicity of time, we miss with these things.   See thought has forms of energy that shape our reality.  In many forms, there is violence, anger, hostility, jealousy and negative emotions that are carried from past experiences.  These experiences cultivate more negative energy and in essence robs one of their present.  Their now.  To achieve nothing, one must release all these strongholds.  But how? Or I have, but new things are triggering this?  You don’t understand what is going on now, I do, for I am focused on this now.

All statements that may be going through your mind, energy that is here are holding on to a memory of the distant past and accessing the minute energy from within you and cultivating growth into the present.  This is an invite of this energy into your life.  Since it is known, one has allowed darker manifestations into their reality.

But if you don’t know and you have released, then you are empty and NOW you can move freely, in synchronicity as designed.   It is here there are no barriers of the mind, emotional blockages or fragments in perception.  So we find, one must release to find this level of awareness.  This is leaving the window open.  The moment of allowing without expectation.  Not to wait, but to just allow and be.

In the world we live in today, this seems like one impossible feat. But from the ancients perspective before there were so many distractions with technology, busy lives control designed cultures, there was freedom of mind.  Freedom of the unknown.  Freedom of the known.

This freedom is what they speak and teach, but has been watered down into dissolution of the mind as centuries gone by. Confusing it to believe that habitual patterns are needed and of capacity to fulfill one’s desires.  It is time to unleash such false beliefs and take into practice this actual teaching of allowing and being still to embrace the now.

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