Relationships

Another year has truly come and gone!  And boy what a year 2020 did bring?! Right? See, more than anything that I feel, is that many of you don’t want to go back to certain habits or relationships.  You are ready to break ties and want to know HOW.  It feels like a weight moving […]

Being true to you is knowing your real value.  Knowing your true worth. Thinking of the experiences from childhood, for many of us long forgotten, we have learned fear and that there are certain things that are not for us.  With more resistance in life, obstacles, we start to accept these levels feel that certain […]

Forgiveness is a part of the healing process that you do for yourself, which we all know, but how about the actions that should take place with someone after? Forgiving and forgetting is beautiful for you get a fresh start, you cleanse yourself from the inside out and can be renewed.  In many cases, the […]

I was asked this and I looked up and seen an elderly Caucasian woman sitting in front of me.  I asked, “did you say colored?”.  She repeated, “yes, that’s what she calls people that are not caucasian.”I responded “and half of you can’t spell it, so I guess that’s why they go with white.”  She […]

When evaluating relationships to find if there is fairness and equality, there are certain checkpoints one must consider to make a good decision.  Always start with yourself.  The concern with establishing to ensure that you are not being used, or treated unfairly in the relationship (friends/family). Many times, the question on friendship comes up when […]

lol…that’s how it feels. 🙂 This has been on my mind recently, the integration of two worlds.  The spirit life and then interacting with everyone else. Let’s face it when you start going through your awakening, it is difficult to interact with both sides. Both sides meaning, the ones that are still closed to the […]

The circle of friendship, one built on trust, unity and commitment, when time has been put in the decision to leave may be a difficult one.  Especially as each grow and evolve to who they really are.  The circle, the tie is one, with familiarity that can be a difficult decision to part with an […]

A very integral part of our makeup and we know so little about.  This is energy.  Energy is in everything and is everywhere.  It impacts us greater than we realize and if it was understood could help heal and manifest. When you are dealing with people, the root of understanding is with energy of the […]

To Secure when you will have love again is a scary path for many.  This is a posing question that I have been faced with a number of folks, with curiousity of when they will meet the right one.  Now, I often stay away from relationship conversations here, but I have been helping a lot […]

How To Cope With The Disconnect in Relationships As you go through your journey, a shift and feelings of disconnect will occur.  There are times that you may feel alone or that you are just different from everyone around you.  This my friend, is completely normal. So many times, I have felt out of sorts, […]

Meditation, Syncronicity and Consistency Now I made a vow to stay consistent here even if it is late in the day.  So today was filled with a lot of nothing.  Dealing with a teen that is overwhelmed with college decisions, a young child that has his challenges, I guess its a boy thing and a […]

I love having conversations with friends, especially ones that I connect with and can vibe with.  We got into a discussion on relationships and expectation.  Basically, having this expectation can create problems, sometimes major in a relationship. One point that he brought to me was the 50/50, levels of duality that most hope to attain […]