Imagine how we are made, the biology and science of being a human being.  If we really encapsulated that thought and embraced the surrender of our true design, how that impact will change the trajectory of mankind.  From bearing children earlier, to embodying the internal gifts that align us to a divine source, we allow ourselves to experience a fulfilled life with a communion love.  One where you have a tribe and support system that allows you to not just take care of your young, but build a generation line of like minds, individual strong and a togetherness beyond anyones state of imagination now. 

See one thing that has crossed my mind many times and I remember getting into a debate with a past friend on this, is the timing of when to have a children.  Society and life has created a formula - the '"recipe for success" and in this "recipe" it guides us for preparation.  Where you get all of your ingredients together and from there, you mix the dry products, then the wet and with proper timing you integrate to bake, cook mix your meal.  Now, real life, unlike the recipe is not designed that way, its created with the imperfections.  

When we try to wait to have our ingredients all together:  proper finances, education, a home, good zip code, in the 'right crowd', neighborhood and connections we push this date to have a child to a much later age.  Now, for the first time in history, there are more women over the age of 40 pregnant that teens.  Many for the same reason expressed above.   They needed things "right" to start their family.  In place.

Our biology is completely different.  we have young girls starting a menstruation as early as 9 years old.  We as a society have evolved to this "recipe for success" and in that has taken away the 'organic' way of our being.  The whole point of menstruation is to procreate.  For that young body to be able to create a baby.  What if that's how society is really to be?  Where a the first love or youngness is allowed to create a baby and where grandmother is most like in her early 30's to help with the baby and allow that young mother the ability to grow, play, relate to that child.  Where a village is to raise that child.  

This is our natural biological makeup.  Where by 40 we are moving to the end of that cycle.  Menopause.  Where we change internally and externally.  Emotionally it gets harder to take on what we could have at an earlier age.  Physically, we don't have the same energy level to relate to that child, keep up or do things at that close level.  More importantly, we lost the village.  More and more families growing a distance, hiring a nanny, moved away from their family, not knowing how to hold a baby, change a pamper or anything because they lost that life skill in looking for the ingredients.  

Impacting us greatly energetically.  Severing our innate trust to a higher power and fighting to prove something that has been broken within.  The system has created a ripple effect of fighting past shame, for honor and to be seen as an equal.  With this division, it has fought for power but in a wrong way.  In a way that is working hard for protection.  Protection from failure, pain and repeat trajectory that innately has created a deeper separation.  

The one where you battle in silence with the pain of doing it all yourself.  Where the authenticity is lost and the unforgiveness has grown leaving family feeling like strangers.  This has nulled the beauty of your own DNA to expand and thrive, but to rob you of the truest wealth of love.  To move with conviction and heal this path, we must find our way back.   

Leave the idea where if he can't show up and do XYZ then leave, or that you are better by yourself.  With aging, the body changes significantly and the resistance to mistakes lessens.  The shortness of patience is not a flaw, but a signal to connect on a deeper level.  Not to cut him off, or think he's stupid or that she's crazy, hormonal or not easy to get along with.  This pain of suffering in silence has increased beyond a pace of normalcy, but a pace of deep loneliness where the focus has shifted to make money and find wealth through a piece of a paper, while alienating the true wealth that exists within yourself and forcing a lifestyle of living to work versus working to live.  

The community, the love, impact and trust to evolve as a one.  Learning from past mistakes, giving grace and a pace to evolve differently where we rely on one another and not the failed recipe that has one seek for the ingredients.  The ingredients are within you.  The master divine creation that has been given infinite power and an abyss of love that without the pain and suffering that has passed from century to century would create a beautiful wonderful world.  

What changes now?  A daily progression of moments.  Moment where you catch the thought, the belief and you work through that with one another to heal what has been broken.  To add the flavor and align that 'tang' back into life where its messy, uncertain and even when the first try is a bust, you learn.  You learn in a way that you try again, and eventually you perfect.  But like a restaurant, you have help.  

The recipe is no longer on you.  You get ideas to supplement, replace when you are out of one ingredient and maybe find another key ingredient.  This is our key to life and its path to reverse the pain, shame and assaults of life to reclaim our wisdoms and love.  The one power that comes when we unite.